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Welcome to the category archive that’s all about me. Here you’ll find all the articles that have been indexed as containing a sizable amount of personal information and my experiences.

If you want to learn more about the person behind the Unwanted Life blog, then this is the archive for you.

Here you’ll find articles whereby I talk about my mental health and my invisible disability issues. You’ll also find some other interesting insights into who I am as a person.

How To Always Be There For A Friend: #BeTheMateYoudWant

18 June 202412 June 2019 by Unwanted Life
A photo of two guys at a viewing platform overlooking a forest area with the article title - How To Always Be There For A Friend: #BeTheMateYoudWant - across the top of the image

Reading Time: 4 minutesTo honour Men’s Health Week, this article will discuss male friendships, because you should always be there for a friend: #BeTheMateYoudWant

Categories General, MeTags Friends, Men's Health, Suicide, Support23 Comments

A Course Mandated Experiential Group For Therapists

18 June 20245 June 2019 by Unwanted Life
A group of people sitting around a table talking represent the topic of the article - A Course Mandated Experiential Group For Therapists

Reading Time: 6 minutesThis article will use an example of an experiential group for therapists to show the power of minority influence and diffused responsibility

Categories Advice, General, Me, TherapyTags Education, Group14 Comments

My Experience Of Being In Group Therapy: Part 2

18 June 202429 May 2019 by Unwanted Life
A photo of five people of non-white ethnic origin sitting and standing together smiling and talking with the title of the article - My Experience Of Being In Group Therapy: Part 2 - in the top right corner

Reading Time: 9 minutesThis article outlines my second experience of giving group therapy a try and the outcome of that experience, echoing the first attempt

Categories General, Me, TherapyTags BPD, Group, Mental Health Trust, Relationships5 Comments

Life With My Hair Destroying Behaviours

18 June 202426 May 2019 by Unwanted Life
A photo of a woman getting her hair straightened with the article title - Life With My Hair Destroying Behaviours - in the top right corner

Reading Time: 6 minutesAs a follow on to the article, Traction Alopecia: The Hair Pulling Question, I discuss my life with my hair destroying behaviours

Categories General, Me, Mental HealthTags Anxiety, Body Image, Shame14 Comments

Traction Alopecia: The Hair Pulling Question

18 June 202422 May 2019 by Unwanted Life
A photo of a bald black man drinking coffee to represent - Traction Alopecia: The Hair Pulling Question

Reading Time: 16 minutesThis article discusses my hair pulling and hair destroying behaviours that lead to me developing permanent traction alopecia to identify which disorder best accounts for those behaviours

Categories General, Me, Mental Health, ResearchTags Body Image, Self-Harm35 Comments

Having A Freedom Pass When You Have An Invisible Disability

18 June 202419 May 2019 by Unwanted Life
A photo of people standing at a train platform with a train stopped at the next platform over with the title of the article - Having A Freedom Pass When You Have An Invisible Disability - across the top of the image

Reading Time: 5 minutesMy disability freedom pass was meant to help set me free, but I soon found out it caused me additional anxiety: Invisible disabilities

Categories General, MeTags Anxiety, Disability14 Comments

My Experience Of Being In Group Therapy: Part 1

18 June 20248 May 2019 by Unwanted Life
A photo of five people sitting on chairs in a circle talking to each other with the title of the article -My Experience Of Being In Group Therapy: Part 1 - across the top of the image

Reading Time: 4 minutesA personal account of group therapy and the difficulties that come with it, due to it feeling like I’m the practitioner or switching off

Categories General, MeTags Anxiety, Attachment, BPD, Group, Mental Health Trust, Relationships8 Comments

Dieting To Misery: Being Overweight

18 June 20245 May 2019 by Unwanted Life
A black and white photo of a woman measuring their waistline with the article - Dieting To Misery: Being Overweight - across the top of the photo

Reading Time: 5 minutesMy first-hand account of trying to lose weight by dieting, but what I found was that I was dieting to misery. Is weight loss anyway worth it?

Categories General, Health, Me, Mental HealthTags Depression, Diet, Eating Disorders, Fitness10 Comments

My Experience Of Being In One-To-One Schema Therapy

19 June 20241 May 2019 by Unwanted Life
A photo of a man sitting in a chair talking to a therapist sitting in a chair and taking notes with the article title - My Experience Of Being In One-To-One Schema Therapy - above them

Reading Time: 6 minutesA personal view of one-to-one schema therapy and being abandoned when I needed the support most by my Mental Health Trust (NHS)

Categories General, Me, TherapyTags Addiction, Anxiety, Mental Health Trust, Psychosis13 Comments

Unopened Mail: The Surprising Impact Of Trivial Fears

19 June 202428 April 2019 by Unwanted Life
A red British mail box on the corner of a village house, with the title of the article in the top corner - Unopened Mail: The Surprising Impact Of Trivial Fears

Reading Time: 5 minutesI discuss the complications of not opening your mail, using my experience to highlight how this behaviour can make your mental health worse

Categories General, Me, Mental HealthTags Anxiety, Coping Strategies, Debt, Depression8 Comments
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