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Welcome to the category archive that’s all about me. Here you’ll find all the articles that have been indexed as containing a sizable amount of personal information and my experiences.

If you want to learn more about the person behind the Unwanted Life blog, then this is the archive for you.

Here you’ll find articles whereby I talk about my mental health and my invisible disability issues. You’ll also find some other interesting insights into who I am as a person.

Is Self-Care selfish? The Case Against Self-Care Being Selfish

23 September 20255 November 2025 by Unwanted Life
A photo of a Black woman face with a plaster on each check which holds flowers. The plasters say "Take care of yourself" to represent the topic of the article Is Self-Care Selfish? The Case Against Self-Care Being Selfish

Reading Time: 7 minutesSelf-care has an odd place in society. For too many, it’s a dirty word, when really it’s anything but, yet the belief that it’s selfish persists

Categories General, Me, Mental Health, ResearchTags Self-Care, What is...5 Comments

Explaining Eating Disorder Safe Foods For Those Who Don’t Know

23 September 202529 October 2025 by Unwanted Life
A person carry a plate of food wearing a Jason Voorhees ice skating hockey mask and wielding a machete to represent the topic of the article - Explaining Eating Disorder Safe Foods For Those Who Don't Know

Reading Time: 6 minutesWhen it comes to disordered eating and eating disorders, safe foods and fear foods play an important role, a role not always understood

Categories Advice, General, Learning Disabilities and Difficulties, Me, Mental Health, TherapyTags Autism, Eating Disorders, Exposure therapy, Treatment, What is...3 Comments

15 Spooky-Good Ways To Spread Kindness This Halloween

22 September 202515 October 2025 by Unwanted Life
A photo of someone with a carved pumpkin head with smoke coming out of it's mouth to represent the topic of the article - 15 Spooky-Good Ways To Spread Kindness This Halloween

Reading Time: 4 minutesWhile all the ghouls and ghosts are out this Halloween, remember that trick-or-treat can also be share-and-care. It’s nice to be kind

Categories General, Me, ResearchTags Positive Psychology8 Comments

Wabi-sabi: The Amazing Beauty In The Broken And Imperfect

9 September 202524 September 2025 by Unwanted Life
An image of a broken mask that has been fixed in parts with gold, using the Kintsugi approach, to represent the topic of the article - Wabi-sabi: The Amazing Beauty In The Broken And Imperfect

Reading Time: 8 minutesFinding beauty in imperfection and embracing the imperfect is a core principle of wabi-sabi, one that is fantastic for our mental well-being

Categories Advice, General, Me, Mental Health, ResearchTags Anxiety, Depression, Mindfulness, Stress, What is...7 Comments

Hugging The Cactus: A Game Winning Strategy By Iron Man

9 September 202517 September 2025 by Unwanted Life
A photo of someone holding a potted cactus to present the topic of the article -Hugging The Cactus: A Game Winning Strategy By Iron Man

Reading Time: 6 minutesWhat can Iron Man teach us about life? One thing he can teach us is how hugging the cactus can be important. Click the article to find out more

Categories Advice, General, Me, Mental Health, ResearchTags Abuse, Addiction, Trauma, What is...13 Comments

Fear Of Abandonment: How To Save Our Relationships

9 September 202510 September 2025 by Unwanted Life
A photo of a woman in a wedding dress, abandoned in a run down building to represent the topic of the article - Fear Of Abandonment: How To Save Our Relationships

Reading Time: 14 minutesA fear of abandonment can come from a lot of places, but that fear of loss doesn’t have to imprison us. There are ways to overcome this fear

Categories Advice, General, Me, Mental HealthTags Abuse, Anxiety, BPD, Bullying, Coping Strategies, Racism, Relationships, Trauma, What is...5 Comments

The Amazing Well-being Benefits Of A Good Morning Text

12 August 202513 August 2025 by Unwanted Life
A photo of a Black woman in bed with a coffee, smiling as they read a good morning text to present the topic of the article - The Amazing Well-being Benefits Of A Good Morning Text

Reading Time: 4 minutesHow would it make you feel to receive a good morning text from someone you care about in your life? Why not start that habit yourself?

Categories Advice, General, Me, Mental Health, ResearchTags Relationships, Self-Care, Support14 Comments

Craving Control 101: What You Need to Know About Urge Surfing

17 April 202528 May 2025 by Unwanted Life
A photo of a White man surfing to represent the topic of the article - Craving Control 101: What You Need to Know About Urge Surfing

Reading Time: 8 minutesCravings and urges can be a pain to manage, but they don’t have to be. Urge surfing is a simple mindfulness skill that can take back our control

Categories Advice, General, Learning Disabilities and Difficulties, Me, Mental Health, ResearchTags Addiction, Coping Strategies, What is...6 Comments

Re-Entry Anxiety: How To Ease Back Into Work After A Break

7 April 202523 April 2025 by Unwanted Life
A photo of three people sitting around a work table, with one of those people being in a wheelchair to represent the topic of the article - Re-Entry Anxiety: How To Ease Back Into Work After A Break

Reading Time: 12 minutesRe-entry anxiety can be a crippling experience if left alone, but it doesn’t have to be like that. There are several strategies to manage our re-entry anxiety

Categories Advice, General, Me, Mental Health, ResearchTags Anxiety, Exposure therapy, What is...5 Comments

The Truth About Monotonous Eating: It’s Not Just Boring

1 April 20252 April 2025 by Unwanted Life
A photo of a White woman in an orange top, watching an orange TV in an orange room, eating orange coloured food to represent the topic of the article - The Truth About Monotonous Eating: It's Not Just Boring

Reading Time: 7 minutesMonotonous eating is a habit that exists for many reasons. While it can be boring to live with this eating habit, that’s rarely an issue on its own

Categories Advice, General, Health, Learning Disabilities and Difficulties, Me, Mental Health, ResearchTags Body Image, Diet, Eating Disorders, What is...12 Comments
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