With the return of the TV show ‘Ballers’ and with suicide prevention month being upon us, I thought I’d write a post about the shows suicide storyline. Plus, offer a review of the show in general.
For those not familiar with the America TV show Ballers, the show stars Dwayne ‘The Rock’ Johnson as Spencer Strasmore. Spencer is a retired NFL player who has become a financial advisor for other NFL players. However, in letter seasons his career branches out. I can’t really say much more without spoiling the show for you.
Also starring next to the Rock is Rob Corddry as Joe Krutel, a financial advisor, who meets Spencer Strasmore at Anderson Financial.
This show might not be the kind show you’d expect to tackle a suicide storyline, but it has. Especially given that it’s largely about sports and has the genuinely nice guy, Dwayne ‘The Rock’ Johnson, playing the role of an alpha male and former NFL player. But the show hasn’t shied away from the big issues.
Throughout the show, you also get to see Spencer Strasmore deal with his own physical and mental health problems (something the Rock has had to deal with himself). This helps to show that even hugely well-toned men can also suffer from mental health problems, which, on its own, is an important message to send to men.
They’ve also tackled the Post-Concussion Syndrome (Ricky Jerrett, played by John David Washington), and let’s not forget the reason for this post, the suicide of Dwayne ‘The Rock’ Johnson’s character (Spencer Strasmore) older brother, William. William was a one time USC quarterback, who, due to issues with the NCAA, ended up taking his life.
Another taboo male topic was broached in Ballers in season 3, the topic of fertility. Spenser realises he’s never had a pregnancy scare, and after dealing with a lot of reluctance, he eventually has his fertility tested. The results of which you’ll have to watch the show to find out.
For a show like this, which is largely targeted at a male audience, to tackle such issues will hopefully encourage men to seek help with their health. Which is important, because men are more likely than women to commit suicide.
Ballers Suicide Storyline
Throughout the show you get the occasional tit-bit about Spencer’s brother’s suicide, and what led to it happening. But it’s not until season 4 where it starts to become a more significant part of the story. This is when you become fully aware of the background of Spencer’s brother’s tragic suicide, and when you start to see Spencer’s motivations.
At the start of season 4 (episode 1), Spencer takes his friend and partner to the bridge where his older brother, William, sadly took his life. The death of his brother was part of Spencer’s reluctance to return to West Coast, so it’s a significant moment for Spencer.
This is the episode where Spencer decides to put his baggage to one side and stay in LA for the sake of the work they had there. In short, this is a scene created to show how Spencer is ready to lift the weight of his brother’s death off his shoulders, freeing him from his emotional burden (i.e. his guilt).
By the end of Season 4, there was another poignant moment with regards to Spencer’s brother’s death. You see Spencer at his brother’s grave having an emotional moment, and it’s this moment he decides he’s going to take on the NCAA who he blames for his brother’s death.
Dwayne ‘The Rock’ Johnson’s Personal Experience With Suicide
Dwayne ‘The Rock’ Johnson has also opened up about his personal experience with suicide, talking about his mother’s (Ata Johnson) attempt. The Rock took a break whilst filming the grave scene about his characters brother’s suicide on the set of Ballers to share his personal story of his mother’s suicide attempt. Which he posted on Instagram.
My mom tried to check out when I was 15. She got outta the car on Interstate 65 in Nashville and walked into oncoming traffic. Big rigs and cars swerving outta the way not to hit her. I grabbed her and pulled her back on the gravel shoulder of the road.
That’s a lot for any teenager to handle. For information on what you could do to help someone who’s feeling suicidal, check out my previous post Suicide And Suicide Prevention.
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Not your typical scene on our comedy #ballers, as I cracked a beer open toasting my character’s brother, William who committed suicide. Got me thinkin’ though bout how many of us have been affected by suicide of our friends, family. Struggle and pain is real. We’ve all been there on some level or another. My mom tried to check out when I was 15. She got outta the car on Interstate 65 in Nashville and walked into oncoming traffic. Big rigs and cars swerving outta the way not to hit her. I grabbed her and pulled her back on the gravel shoulder of the road. What’s crazy about that suicide attempt is to this day, she has no recollection of it whatsoever. Probably best she doesn’t. Shits of a scene to shoot – didn’t like it – but it did reminder that we always gotta do our best to really pay attention when people are in pain. Help ‘em thru it, get ‘em talkin’ about the struggle and remind ‘em that they’re not alone. We got lucky that day when I was 15 and that ain’t always the case.
Review Of Ballers
Ballers wasn’t normally the kind of show I’d watch, but I thought I’d give it a try when the first season premiered because there wasn’t much else available at the time. But I wasn’t disappointed, I’ve ended up watching every episode to date.
The suicidal storyline portrayed on Ballers resonated with me on many levels, because of my personal experience. The show also highlights that people we consider having the whole world in their hands, with fame and money all coming there way, can still end up taking their lives. Mental health problems don’t discriminate.
Both Rob Corddry and Dwayne ‘The Rock’ Johnson act brilliantly in this show, and you see them showing their skills in a wide wage of emotional situations. The surprising scale and depth of the normally taboo storylines also show just how good their acting range is, and really helps to make the storylines relatable.
In general, I was surprised that I’d like such a show, but the fact that they were tackling the big issues around men’s health, athletes health, NCAA, etc. was what made the show really enjoyable and eye-opening to watch.
If you haven’t watched Ballers yet, give it a go, I would give it 4 out of 5 stars. Plus, it only has a 27ish minute runtime, and each season only has 8-10 episodes as well, so it won’t eat up that much of your time either.
Unfortunately, it looks like season 5 will be the last, as HBO has cancelled the show. There hasn’t been a reason given for why the show has been cancelled, but it’s likely due to ratings. Which is a shame. I hope they at least round off the show with a proper ending.
Do you watch Ballers? What do you think about their suicide storyline? Have you experienced a loved one taking their own life or have you struggled with suicidal ideation? Let me know in the comments section below.
For more information about suicide and mental health, check out my previous post, Mental Health: The Figures.
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